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"Keep love in your heart. A life without it is like a sunless garden when the flowers are dead."

"True love stories never have endings."

ABOUT

Welcome to Circle and Flame Co.- a space where psychology meets ritual, and healing becomes an act of sacred transformation.

I'm Alexie Lofstrom-Dewes, the founder of Circle and Flame Co. I'm a therapist, ritualist, and space-holder who works at the intersection of depth psychology, shadow work, and spiritual practice. My approach is rooted in the belief that healing is not just about coping- it's about reclaiming wholeness. Here, we make space for the parts of you that have been exiled, silenced, and hidden away.

The circle is our container- steady, inclusive, and sacred.
The flame is our guide- illuminating what's ready to be seen and transmuted.

At Circle & Flame Co., I offer one-on-one therapy, workshops, group memberships, moon circles, and retreats for those craving deeper inner work. This is a place for the seekers, the feelers, the ones navigating grief, identity, trauma, and transformation. Especially for those who are queer, neurodivergent, or otherwise moving through the world on their own terms.

My work blends evidence-based therapy with astrology, ancestral wisdom, and ritual arts- not as performance, but as medicine. Whether you're arriving in the midst of upheaval, emergence, or quiet longing, this space is for you.


This is not about fixing what's broken.
This is about remembering who you are.

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Services

Individual Therapy for:

  • ADHD
  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Ethical Non-Monogamy
  • LGBTQIA+ issues
  • Nervous System Regulation
  • Polyamory Issues
  • Pre-Marital Counseling
  • Trauma Issues
  • Women's Issues

Group Coaching options on Patreon:

                  Join the Circle and Flame Collective here


Wedding Officiant Services:

  • Queer
  • Non-Religious
  • Non-Traditional
  • Pagan
  • Spiritual
  • Witchy
  • Earth based
  • Tailored for You Specific Needs
 
                                   See packages here

Workshops


Conferences



Retreats


We are stardust with nervous systems- let's treat both with care.

"This woman is amazing! I will forever recommend her!" ~ Kevin & Annabelle

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